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I just recently lost my 2nd son.. I was 23 weeks preganat. when I found out that my son had completely stopped growing at 17.1 weeks gestation. I 1st son was born at 28.6 weeks and is healthly and normal 6 year old.. Has anyone gone thru this situation before??
There are a lot of support groups for moms that need someone to talk to as well..
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Name: hugos225 | Date: Aug 14th, 2006 7:41 AM
I greet you in the Name of our God,
the Beneficent, the Merciful,the Master of the day To whom All the Praise and the most
Beautiful Names belongs.

I am Mr Mr David Martins,
On 10th February 2004,i am my family(my wife and two kids) boarded an Iranian plane which burst into flames as we flew into Sharjah airport from the Iranian island of Kish.I lost my family and it was only three of us that survived and we were treated at al-Qasimi hospital in
Sharjah.I laid helpless there in the hospital because my condition was so critical and after series of operation i had to be taken back to my home land cote d lvorie, paralysed:

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to my failing health I am taking this step to let you know that I want to leave in your care the sum of $6.5Million United States Dollars for a charitable organisation or an in care of an individual to propagate the good work of God, which i deposited in finance/Security Company . I will like you to help me collect this deposit and dispatche it to charity organizations in your country, for the good work of God.

I have had course to make donations to organisations here through my relatives and friends before now who abscunded with the funds and used for thier own selfish interest because nobody to help me follow them up.I will be leaving this mantle in the care of my lawyer who you will work with.I know this mail will definetely come to you suprisely but i want you to remember that:God Tests His Subjects in many different ways. This He Says in the Bible; knowing that whatsoever good thing any man doeth the-same shall he receive of the Lord (Eph.6:8) . And you can not help another without helping yourself.


1God won't ask about your social status, but will ask what kind of
class you displayed.
2.God won't ask how many material possessions you had, but will ask
if they dictated your life.
3.God won't ask how many promotions you received, but will ask how
you promoted others.
4.God won't ask what you did to protect your rights, but will ask
what you did to protect the rights of others.

Hoping to hear from you soon,to enable me give you the contact of my lawyer, so that he will give you more setails how you will contact the security company in oversea, to enable them release the money for the work of Almighty God. account your interest to help me to propagate the work of God.If you are interested or not,one thing i beg of you is please include me in your prayers.All praise is due to God Who brought everything into existence and May the peace and blessing of God be upon our noble our Lord Jesue Christ.peace be upon him) and His virtuous adorers till the day of Judgments.What else should i say other that we should meet God with a clean mind and clear conscience.May God bless you as you respond to my plea.

Mr David Martins.

david_martins7@yahoo.fr 

Name: norah | Date: Aug 14th, 2006 10:03 AM
Yes. I lost my twins who were born early and died a couple of weeks later. It was my second pregnancy. I had another child born early, but is ok, then a miscarriage, then I got pregnant with twins again and gave birth to the surviving twin 8 weeks ago. So in the last 4 years I have expected 7 children, but have only 3 surviving. It is hard, but it gets easier as time goes. We are doing well now, but still think expecially of the twins because they lived for a few weeks. But we are Christians and we believe that we will have a large family in Heaven one day! Be open with your friends and family about how you are doing, even if you think that they think you should be 'over it'. Just tell them if you are having a bad day and let them support you. 

Name: mary | Date: Nov 29th, 2008 9:54 PM
I am very sorry for your loss. I also lost my son. He was born at 28 1/2 weeks. He lived for seven days. My son also became growth retricted. We found out he was growth restricted at 19 weeks. He continued to grow slowly untill the day he went into stress and they had to deliever him . He was born on 12/22/06 and died in my arms on 12/29/06. It has been almost two years and it hurts just as bad as when I lost him. I blamed his growth restriction on 17 hydroxy progesterone and the lovenox shots the dr put me on. My baby was growing fine untill I started takeing these shots. I also have been to support groups. They do help to talk to people that have lost other babies. I will keep you in my prayers. 

Name: Lyndsay | Date: Jan 3rd, 2009 11:49 AM
October 10th 2008 I gave birth to a beautiful baby boy. All seemed to be going perfect, and I could not have possibly been happier. I spent the three days in the hospital and was discharged oct.13. I went home and spent the next 5 days there with my little guy. The morning of oct. 18 was the worst day of my life. I woke and knew something was wrong with my little braydon. I screamed to my boyfriend and we immidiately called 911. They arrived and braydon was no longer alive.
We found out from his autopsy that all of this could have been prevented and Braydon would still be here with us today if doctors and nurses would have just paid more attention and done their jobs.
Braydon lost his life at eight days old because of something called PDA (patent ductus arteriousis) this is when his ductus (valve you could call it) never closed. It is open when he was in womb but should close 24-48 hours after being born. HIS DIDN'T, but there were signs...heart murmer and signs of him going into heart failure like his liver being so inflammed and his lungs drowning. But no now 21/2 months later not only do I have to live with the death of my first born baby, but the anger for every single USELESS doctor who checked over Braydon. If it weren't for such neglegence I would be with him right now watching my baby grow up.
I just wanted to let everyone know who has lost a baby that there are greif councelling groups out there and it does seem to help me talk with others who have lost something so incredibly special to them. Who like you never want them to be forgotten and are the c losest people to know what you are gowing through. Trust me friends who say "i know what your going through" and have not lost a child DO NOT know, they have no clue at all. 

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