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I am 15 and the guy that i lost my verginity to is much older he was my boyfriend for 9 months it was about a month ago the last time we did something and i am 22 days late with my peirod if i am pregnant my mom will kill me and i just think my family will disown me so i am very scared is there any teens that think there pregnant like me if so tell me your story or comment on mine i dont care tell me the truth ↓
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| Name: Lizzi | Date: Nov 24th, 2006 2:16 PM |
| What I would do first is buy a home pregnancy test and find out if you are or not for sure. Then if you are and you are going to keep the baby then you must tell your mom. Even if you will abort you still need to tell your mom because of your age. She might be unhappy about it but she will help you deal with the matter either way you go. ↑ |
| Name: nicole miller | Date: Nov 24th, 2006 6:02 PM |
You need to check... first off... (can someone please explain why the girls on here who think they're pregnant dont just.... take a test?)
Assuming that you are pregnant you need to discuss the situation with your parent(s) and decide exactly what you're going to do. If you plan to keep the baby there is a lot of arrangments that you're going to need to make. You're going to have to figure out how you're going to pay for all of the things that you're baby is going to need, how you're going to finish school (alternative highschool, GED, etc.) and you're going to need to figure out how you're going to get child care. I am a firm believer that your family should NOT become your live-in babysitters or pay for the child as if it were their own... they aren't the parents of the child, you will be, so you'll need to look into state funded or low-income child care so that you can work or go to school (unless you decide to alter your living arrangments, marry the father, etc.)
Basically there are a ton of decisions that you're going to have to make - and some that you wont get to make because of your age. If you are pregnant than it will affect your entire family, and they should all have equal say in how you go about dealing with the situation. ↑ |
| Name: nicole miller | Date: Nov 24th, 2006 6:03 PM |
| Oh - and I agree with Lizzi... if you do decide to get an abortion you still need to dicuss it with your parents so that you can recieve adequate counseling and such afterwards. It's not something that will just go away after one doctor's appointment, and you will most definitly need some formal counseling to work through it or else you could be setting yourself up for some really horrible issues later on. ↑ |
| Name: BaRbIe_TeEn | Date: Nov 26th, 2006 1:29 PM |
| Im 16 i got preg wen i was 14 now my baby is 6month old (my dob was in sept 06) its not as hard as it seems honestly but do what u think is right 4 u! my mum was soooooooo dissapointed! if eva need ny support wot ya not gettin at home email me!!!! dillyellis@aol.com luv chloe x ↑ |
| Name: nicole miller | Date: Nov 29th, 2006 10:43 PM |
| Name: benedict_14 | Date: Dec 1st, 2006 3:54 PM |
| i have a friend that got pregnant at about your age. her mom too got angry and disappointed, but it was a choice that led her to the situation, and like you, you must take responsibility to your actions...be sure that you are pregnant, and make the right choice by first consulting your family. they may get angry, letting them see that you are strong to take responsibility will warm them up. ↑ |
| Name: Nicola | Date: Dec 11th, 2006 12:23 PM |
| M what a cold nasty thing to say. I can't believe she'd say such a nasty thing like that about Nicole. Love to know what she thinks of me and my life story. ↑ |
| Name: kayliandleo4eva | Date: Dec 14th, 2006 2:43 PM |
| hey im 14 and just preg w my 2nd i no ttly wot yr goin thru lluv kayz x ps email me on kayliandleo4eva@hotmail.co.uk if u wana chat ↑ |
| Name: NCmom | Date: Dec 20th, 2006 12:29 PM |
| I was 18 when I got married and got pregnant. I had finished high school though. It's SOOO hard being a teen mom now. My son is 2 yrs. old and I'm 21 now, but thinking about it back then, It was WWAAAYYY to early to have a baby. I mean I didn't get pregnant b/c I wanted to, it just happened. But not being able to do the things that your friends are doing sucks. My bestfriend is 18 with a 1 yr. old. She loves her daughter, but I know she gets down in the dumps alot. But, with me, if you choose to have sex then you have to be able to face the outcomes. That's what I had to do. I wouldn't take nothing in the world for my son. ↑ |
| Name: kellylynn1973 | Date: Dec 22nd, 2006 12:29 AM |
| I am a 33 year old gal, wanting a baby since I was 19. but for some reason god didn't have that in my plans. my eggs don't mature, so please dont' get rid of your baby, atleast make it through the first 9 mos. and find a nice family to be there if you can't. so many can have a baby and so so many can't have a baby, that want to, so but life is life and it's special no matter what, that is just what I think. goodluck in what you decided. ↑ |
| Name: mystic1306 | Date: Dec 28th, 2006 1:23 PM |
First you need to take a pregnancy if you think you are far enough along. If you are pregnant, you need to tell your mother that you have something you need to speak with her about. Tell her that this is very hard for you and that you need her support and guidance. Tell her you have a serious situation and that while it may upset her, as it does you, that right now you need honest, unbiased, adult help. And then tell her what has happened. Hopefully, she will not freak out and help you decide what you decide to do. I have been in your position, and if you talk to her as an adult, in a civilized tone, most mothers know how to be strong and help their children in any way they can. What's done is done, there is no changing it, now you, and your mother, must work forward. If you need any help or have questions feel free to email me.
mystic1306@excite.com ↑ |
| Name: T-rabbit | Date: Jan 2nd, 2007 12:55 AM |
Could you be pregnant? Most likely you won't notice any symptoms until about the time you've missed a period — or a week or two later.
If you're not keeping track of your menstrual cycle or if it varies widely from one month to the next, you may not be sure when to expect your period. But if you start to experience some of the symptoms below — not all women get them all — and you haven't had a period for a while, you may very well be pregnant. Take a home pregnancy test to find out for sure!
10. Tender, swollen breasts
One of the early signs of pregnancy is sensitive, sore breasts caused by increasing levels of hormones. The soreness may feel like an exaggerated version of how your breasts feel before your period. Your discomfort should diminish significantly after the first trimester, as your body adjusts to the hormonal changes.
9. Fatigue
Feeling tired all of a sudden? No, make that exhausted. No one knows for sure what causes early pregnancy fatigue, but it's possible that rapidly increasing levels of the hormone progesterone are contributing to your sleepiness.
You should start to feel more energetic once you hit your second trimester, although fatigue usually returns late in pregnancy when you're carrying around a lot more weight and some of the common discomforts of pregnancy make it more difficult to get a good night's sleep.
8. Implantation bleeding
Some women have a small amount of vaginal bleeding around 11 or 12 days after conception (close to the time you might notice a missed period). The bleeding may be caused by the fertilized egg burrowing into the blood-rich lining of your uterus — a process that starts just six days after fertilization — but no one knows for sure.
The bleeding is very light (appearing as red spotting or pink or reddish-brown staining) and lasts only a day or two. (Let your practitioner know if you notice any bleeding or spotting, particularly if it's accompanied by pain, since this can be a sign of an ectopic pregnancy.)
7. Nausea or vomiting
If you're like most women, morning sickness won't hit until about a month after conception. (A lucky few escape it altogether.) But some women do start to feel queasy a bit earlier. And not just in the morning, either — pregnancy-related nausea and vomiting can be a problem morning, noon, or night.
About half of women with nausea feel complete relief by the beginning of the second trimester. For most others it takes another month or so for the queasiness to ease up.
6. Increased sensitivity to odors
If you're newly pregnant, it's not uncommon to feel repelled by the smell of a bologna sandwich or cup of coffee and for certain aromas to trigger your gag reflex. Though no one knows for sure, this may be a side effect of rapidly increasing amounts of estrogen in your system. You may also find that certain foods you used to enjoy are suddenly completely repulsive to you.
5. Abdominal bloating
Hormonal changes in early pregnancy may leave you feeling bloated, similar to the feeling some women have just before their period arrives. That's why your clothes may feel snugger than usual at the waistline, even early on when your uterus is still quite small.
4. Frequent urination
Shortly after you become pregnant, you may find yourself hurrying to the bathroom all the time. Why? Mostly because during pregnancy the amount of blood and other fluids in your body increases, which leads to extra fluid being processed by your kidneys and ending up in your bladder.
This symptom may start as early as six weeks into your first trimester and continue or worsen as your pregnancy progresses and your growing baby exerts more pressure on your bladder.
3. A missed period
If you're usually pretty regular and your period doesn't arrive on time, you'll probably take a pregnancy test long before you notice any of the above symptoms. But if you're not regular or you're not keeping track of your cycle, nausea and breast tenderness and extra trips to the bathroom may signal pregnancy before you realize you didn't get your period.
2. Your basal body temperature stays high
If you've been charting your basal body temperature and you see that your temperature has stayed elevated for 18 days in a row, you're probably pregnant.
And finally...
1. The proof: A positive home pregnancy test
In spite of what you might read on the box, many home pregnancy tests are not sensitive enough to detect most pregnancies until about a week after a missed period. So if you decide to take one earlier than that and get a negative result, try again in a few days.
Once you've gotten a positive result, make an appointment with your practitioner. Now head over to our pregnancy area. ↑ |
| Name: x_Mint_x | Date: Feb 13th, 2007 12:52 PM |
I'm 14 now, and in two hours I will find our for certain if I'm pregnant or not.
What if my body can't handle it though? I'm 5'1 ish and weigh less then a 100lb. ↑ |
| Name: Lizzi | Date: Feb 13th, 2007 10:44 PM |
| x_Mint_x it looks like you might have yourself in a MINT of a situation!!!!!! LOL ↑ |
| Name: SiSi | Date: Feb 16th, 2007 9:36 PM |
| hay im the same situation and im afraid to tell my parents too n e wayz im sylvia have u took a test yet ↑ |
| Name: rachtwins | Date: Mar 3rd, 2007 4:54 AM |
| why don't you girls use protection then you wont be in this dilema and for god sake take a pregnancy test. ↑ |
| Name: missy 26 | Date: Mar 5th, 2007 4:19 AM |
| Name: dmt | Date: Mar 14th, 2007 1:54 PM |
| Hi My name is Michelle and I am 33 and have children. I am sure your parents will love you no matter what. You take a home pregnancy test before you worry to much. If your pregnant are you interested in adoption.? I am interested in adopting and I would make sure your baby had all the love in the world and had a good home and get to go to college etc. If you are interested email me michelle.miller@pobox.com ↑ |
| Name: madiduff123 | Date: Mar 17th, 2007 11:50 AM |
| girl the best thing you need to do is tell your parents!! how much older was this guy? you need to tell them right now and they will know what to tell you and do what is right!! you better hope to god you are not preganet!!! ↑ |
| Name: rachtwins | Date: Mar 20th, 2007 5:56 AM |
| Hi yeah well I'm 13 and im pragnanet with twins how me ganna tell my parents, I'm so scared. ↑ |
| Name: joanne89 | Date: Mar 21st, 2007 5:00 PM |
| i am 18 and i had sexx.and i was suppose to get my period on the 17th and and i still haven't gotten it..i am eating alot...tired all the time..and i feel fat..and i get pains in my stomache..and im peeing alot..i haven't taken a pregnancy test because i am scaredd... :(.. ↑ |
| Name: rachtwins | Date: Mar 23rd, 2007 2:27 AM |
| Name: AlleyKgirl | Date: Mar 29th, 2007 1:56 AM |
I got pregnant when I was 16 and I did`t tell my mother, Actually everyone knew except my mother. She went out with her husband one night when I was 4 months along and someone told her. . . She came home and started screaming at me. . .I just tuned it out and she made an appointment for me to get an abortion (witch I founf out was illegal for her to do) Anyway`s I missed the appointment and had a beautiful little girl who is now 7 my mother got over her anger and I went on to marry her father and we had two more children. I think parents want what is best for there children you know to have fun while they are young not to grow up to fast you know stuff like that. If you are pregnant and going to keep it, then I think you should sit with your family and tell them before you get to far along. . .and you will see they wont be mad at you for ever. I hope everything works out the way you want it to, and if you ever need to chat e-mail at shama2856@hotmail.com I am always ready to listen.
God bless ↑ |
| Name: ImHisWifey | Date: Apr 6th, 2007 10:01 PM |
| Im 16 and ive been with my boyfriend for a little more then a year. we have been havig sex during our whole relationship with out protection and not once have i been pregnant. But for some reason this last time we had sex twice in one day and i just feel different and im a feww days late nad i have never been late in the past two years. Im my case yes my parents will be upset and disappointed but my boyfriend and i want want a baby. What about you? ↑ |
| Name: starlight | Date: Apr 17th, 2007 11:58 PM |
hi, this is not teally a reply to this, i just dont kno whow to use this chat thing. i am computer savy but i am too panicked to think right now. this is my story: I have a 29 day cycle, I last had sex with my boyfriend on april 6 and then i ovulated on april 9. the sex was unprotected and i had been on the birth control (the pill), the previous month but stopped taking it the last week of active pills. i did get my period that month though. my period is not due till sunday april 22.
the day after my last sexual encounter with my bf, i got really sick. i got a cold and i also had a fever. i am afraid i may be pregnant. i tested twice (yesterday and the day b4) however i am fully aware that it was too soon to test. i have incessant back pain, loss of appetite coupled with weight loss when i should be bloated and gaining weight becuase of PMS (i normally do), i also have constant headaches and slight cramps in my tummy (not in my lower abdoment tho), everything i eat is tasteless, insomnia and today i started feeling nautious (today is 8 dyas after ovulation). I do want to add that all these symptoms are symptoms that i have during PMS anyway except for the loss of appetite, weight-loss, the lack of bloating and extended lapses of headaches and that the nausea lasts for longer periods.
is there a real chance that i am pregnant? what are the chances. i have been researching the internet and there is no telling. in fact most of my symptoms just seem like PMS. where can i go to get a free blood test? i dont have insurance and i am broke! i live in oklahoma city. i cannot wait till my missed period, it's driving me nuts!
please help me. ↑ |
| Name: SHENEITRA | Date: Apr 19th, 2007 3:41 PM |
| HA BABYGURL I AM 13 YEARS OLD I GO WITH A BOY NAME WESLEY PENDLETON THAT MY HEART. WE HAVE BEEN GOING WITH EACHOTHER 4 ONE YEAR AND 4 MONTHS AND I AM IN LOVE! WELL LET ME TELL U SOMTHING I KNOW HOW U FELL BUT EVERYTHING IS GOONA BE OK BECAUSE I AM JUST AS SCARED AS U IS TRUST ME I HAVE A STRICK MOTHER OUT OF THIS WORLD AND MY GRANMOTHER DOSEN'T LOVE ME REALLY NO ONE LOVEZ ME BUT I DOSEN'T MATTER EVERY THING IS GONNA BE OK AS LONG AS U GOT UR MAN U WILL BE ALRIGHT!!!! TRUST ME ↑ |
| Name: SHENEITRA | Date: Apr 19th, 2007 4:02 PM |
| I FORGOT TO TELL THAT I AM 13 AND HE IS 17 BUT IT REALLY DOSEN'T MATTER IT'S THE LOVE THAT COUNTS AND YES I THINK THAT I AM PREGNANT BECAUSE I MISSED A MONTH OF MY PERIOD AND I TOLD HIM BUT HE WANT A LIT.GURL AND I LOVE HIM AND I'M GONNA GIVE HIM WATEVA HE WANTS AS LONG AS HE LOVEZ ME I AM NOT WORRIED ABOUT ANYTHING! ↑ |
| Name: briseis | Date: Apr 21st, 2007 11:42 AM |
| Get back to us when you know you're pregnant. Until then, we have to assume you aren't. ↑ |
| Name: Dreamsofchild | Date: Apr 21st, 2007 7:25 PM |
| Why are you posting to this group? ↑ |
| Name: SHENEITRA | Date: Apr 24th, 2007 3:10 PM |
| AN D4 UR FUCKING INFORMATION I AM POSTING BECAUSE I WANT 2 ↑ |
| Name: *indiffrent* | Date: Jun 12th, 2007 3:22 PM |
| i just found out i was pregnent at 17 and i am still confused about it all being pregnent and not even an adult im still working up the nerve to tell my boyfrined even though i know he would be excited about it im just worried about my parents ↑ |
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