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Name: lncm

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I am stepmother and my 16 year old stepdaughter has disliked me since the day her father and I met. I have made many attempts for her approval but she just won't give. I have went to counseling and with the counselors advice done everything I was told with no changes. We are at a point that we don't even speak and when we do it's an argument. She has done some things to me in the past four years that have not been disciplined by her parents and were serious enough that they should have been. My last argument w/her I was called a bitch in which there were no consequences for her actions. I am by no means the "Evil Stepmother" but I just don't know what to do. ↓

Name: og217 | Date: Mar 4th, 2008 2:53 PM

Leave the imbecile who allows this brat to treat his wife like that. You're not loved, cherished or respected by your husband. Why bother? You didn't marry him and his baggage for this. ↑

Name: Charlie | Date: Oct 22nd, 2008 9:45 AM

I think being a step mother myself I can understand what you're going through. One thing that I know there is NOTHING you will ever do right in front of that child. According to her you are the reason why the parents broke us and you will remain that for as long as you both live. I would say make peace with the fact that she does not like you and stop attempting to make things right. When she is ready if ever that will ever happen she will come to you. ↑

Name: Nisey | Date: Jan 6th, 2009 11:59 PM

hi i am a step mother my husband and his kids mother are both black, I'm white, the 3 oldest kids and i get along just fine, but the youngest one, she is 16 and she is so rude and disrespectful, but her mother will be in the back ground yelling at her father and calling me everything but a women the entire time he tries to speak to his kids, at times she will get on the phone and yell at him, i have kept my mouth shut and let him handle it, i have supported those kids i love them like my own, i so fed up, i don't know what to do???? ↑