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Name: bluebell
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Okay, I'm pregnant and due in March; the father lied to me about being married, and I know I can't look to him for any kind of support - and to be honest, I know I'm not cut out to be a parent myself. I can't even consider an abortion, and I thought I would post here to see whether there are any genuine people who can offer me guidance. Thanks for your time.
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Name: tammy_white78 | Date: Nov 30th, 2008 11:49 AM
hi bluebell, if you need to talk email me at tammy_white78@yahoo , also we would love to adopt a baby. im stay at home mom and we would be willing let you stay with us if needed untill the 6 weeks after you have the baby..we have a safe loving home w/grandparents waiting anxiously for a new arrival. hope hear from you 

Name: babyforus | Date: Nov 30th, 2008 6:35 PM
Hi Bluebell,
Please email me at babyforus91@yahoo.com. I would love to talk to you. Thank you! 

Name: KatNBrian | Date: Dec 1st, 2008 1:01 AM
First off I want to say how much we admire your courageous decision. We understand that you are sacrificing for the well being of your baby. My husband and I have been trying to adopt for a little over 2 years. We have a 14 year old son, and a 12 year old daughter. We are a Christian family from New Mexico. We would love to adopt a newborn or infant. We don't care about race, color or gender. Please contact us for more information or if you just need to talk at kathygravgaard@msn.com. We will keep you in our prayers whatever path you choose. Please remember , no matter what happens in life God sees you as a precious jewel. God Bless You 

Name: seattlesamantha | Date: Dec 1st, 2008 9:38 AM
Hi. My husband and are want to adopt our second child, perhaps we could help each other. I am a stay at home mom, and we are a Christian Family. We have a few websites where you can get to know us better,
www. blessed-with-infertility.blogspot.com
you can email me if you want to talk anymore. We admire the choices you are making!
Much Love,
Jordan and Samantha 

Name: Joce | Date: Dec 1st, 2008 11:27 AM
Hello! We are Toby and Jody. We have 2 daughters who we adopted at birth. We have open relationships with their birthparents.
You can check us out at http://tobyjodyadopting.blogspot.com/ 

Name: Tonia | Date: Dec 1st, 2008 1:59 PM
Hello, I wanted to let you know how brave you are to condider adoption for your baby. It shows you really love your baby and wants what is best for your baby and you. If you would like some help please check out this pregnancy house. The house parents are great and it will give you some time to really think about what you want to do in your life and your babies life.
http://www.rachelshome.org/index.php

If you would like to talk please email and I'll give you my phone number. I would love to talk to you. toniaprice75@yahoo.com

Take care,
Tonia 


Name: jengator07 | Date: Dec 1st, 2008 3:02 PM
Hi Blue Bell,

My husband and I are wanting to adopt. Please contact us for more information jengator07@gmail.com. We would love to talk with you.

Jen 

Name: teagansmommy | Date: Dec 2nd, 2008 10:25 AM
Please email me at teagansmommy@hotmail.com, and ask us anything you would like to know. We are a loving family with a 6 year old daughter who is mine from a previous relationship. My husband is not able to father any children, and we want desperately to have a baby. 

Name: christa964 | Date: Dec 2nd, 2008 3:00 PM
Hi there,
My husband and I have been working with an adoption agency in hopes of adoption a baby. We know a lot about adoption and can answer any questions you may have. We can also get you in touch with a non profit agency that will provide counseling and other support if needed. If you'd like to consider us as adoptive parents, you can view our website at: www.kevinandchristablog.blogspot.com
I'd be happy to answer any questions you have. I know how confused and difficult a time this must be for you. We would love to help any way we can. Best of luck,
Christa
kevinandchrista@aol.com 

Name: gbrinc | Date: Dec 2nd, 2008 3:50 PM
I notice you didnt menton the other A word . Hope this helps you keep your baby.
http://lifemothers.com/singleparents.html 

Name: bluebell | Date: Dec 2nd, 2008 4:14 PM
Thanks for this link, gbrinc...I lie awake at night so often wanting to try and keep the baby, but I would be doing it with no support. My dad passed away this summer and my mom is very, very judgemental - so it would just be me and the baby, and I'm not sure I'm strong enough. 

Name: dottie | Date: Dec 2nd, 2008 4:29 PM
hello Bluebell. i just wanted let you know we are looking to adopt , im a stay at home mom and we have a 15 month old but unable to have anymore so adoption is our only hope. if you need somebody to talk to email me at dottie_waybright@yahoo.com or if youd consider us to adopt the baby (which would be a blessing) email me and ill send you email back w/my phone number. whichever you choose ill be here to help you anyway i can. God bless and take care. by the way where you located? if youd need housing till after you have the baby we are willing let you stay here 

Name: gbrinc | Date: Dec 2nd, 2008 6:03 PM
bluebell
I understand I had my first at 16 she will be 30 in April and being adopted I chose to parent.. Adoption changes who you are forever. Please what ever you decide hear all sides of the adoption triad.
If you have even the slightest reservation about giving up your baby- Don't do it. You are already a mother. Just stay focused on your child and creating a stable future for yourself and your baby. Your baby wants you I wish you the best of luck.
Reunited adoptee
Here are a few more sites....
http://www.cubi
rthparents.org/booklet.pdf
http://www.keepyourbaby.com/
http:
//www.adoptioncrossroads.org/
http
://familypreservation.blogspot.com/
 

Name: lola1975 | Date: Dec 2nd, 2008 8:05 PM
well if u want to give your baby up for adoption husband and i would be be so happy if u choice us to raise your child.walshdelores@yahoo.com to reach us good luck 

Name: barpufa | Date: Dec 2nd, 2008 8:29 PM
Hey bluebell! I'm sorry for what you are going through, I can only imagine how difficult it must be for you. We would love to opportunity to talk with you. If you choose adoption, I would really like to share with you about my amazing famiy. If you choose to parent your child, I wish you all the best--either way I'm sure your child will be loved! barpufa12@yahoo.com 

Name: Rke VA Couple wants to adopt | Date: Dec 2nd, 2008 11:03 PM
I hope if you do decide to place the baby for adoption, that you find the best family for your baby.Like the other couple of hundred answers you will get on here, we are looking to adopt and it has been a long road. We are a regular run of the mill family. My husband is a truck driver, I am a stay at home (wanna be again mom). I have four grown kids (that I had very young) and my husband has not had any kids of his own. We are looking forward to being Mommy and Daddy. We don't have lots of money tucked away, we have to work for what we have. All we can do is teach the basic values of life and spoil them rotten.
We have found on this site that most listings are scams, and it is a harsh reality to so many that hope so hard. However you choose, I hope the best for both you and your baby. 

Name: jengator07 | Date: Dec 3rd, 2008 8:09 PM
Bluebell, If you would like to talk please contact me jengator07gmail.com 

Name: lolittle | Date: Dec 4th, 2008 7:43 PM
HEllo, My name is Lolita and my huband is Dave, we would love to add to are family. We have a lot to offer a child with lots of love. I have once in my younger years also been in your shoes, I want to give back. I'am now a stay home mother and we are well off. I want to share and give what I can and help someone one the way they helped me. My heart has so much to offer
I have always wanted to adopt and willing to do a open adoption. We live in MN
If you would like please do E-Mail me at
loleats@yahoo.com
Thank you, and hope all is well with you.. 

Name: courtneyleanne | Date: Dec 6th, 2008 8:35 PM
Hello my name is Courtney Littleton I am 18 years old and a certified nurse, I became pregnant with a little boy when i had just turned 17 even though my age i was determined to be the mother i have always dreamed of being, Unfortunately at 6 months pregnant, I was pushed down a flight of stairs and miscarried with kayden Alexander littleton, the person that had done this to me was charged and put behind bars but still he took away my dreams, finding out that do to the dramatic and painful fall my uterus was split and i became UN-able to conceive, Even though I know that I will never be able to conceive a baby on my own, I have not gave up hope, I have been engaged to a loving and caring man for 1 year now and our dreams and hopes are still high, We live in a small ton in Kentucky a loving place to grow up and raise children, you can get a hold of me at courtneyleanne2008@hotmail.com for some background information please check out my myspace! Please get in contact with me thank you sincerely yours Courtney 

Name: bluebell | Date: Dec 10th, 2008 12:32 PM
I want to thank all those of you who sent me messages and offered me support - especially gbrinc, because after reading the links that she sent me and making some calls I have decided to parent. I know it's going to be a struggle, but I don't think I will ever forgive myself if I don't at least try. God bless all you ladies on here, and I wish you luck in your searches. 

Name: deannan | Date: Dec 11th, 2008 3:07 PM
hi bluebell please email me at deannan76@yahoo.com 

Name: Mommasbug | Date: Dec 26th, 2008 10:08 PM
Hi!
I am not going to make this long and drawn out. Please take a moment to look at our adoption page:
www.myspace.com/hopingforagirl
If you feel we may be a fit for you and your baby, don't hesitate to send us an email. We will be as open and honest as you need us to be.
Happy holidays!
Darlene & Rick 

Name: dobbie21 | Date: Jan 7th, 2009 12:43 PM
DEAR BLUEBELL,

OUR NAMES ARE AMI AND JERRY

WE ARE WRITING THIS TO YOU

BECAUSE WE WANT YOU TO KNOW

THAT GOD KNOWS HOW YOU FEEL

ABOUT HAVING A BABY GROW IN

SIDE OF YOU AND THEN YOU HAVE

TO FIND SOMEONE TO ADOPT YOUR

BABY ALSO I AMI KNOWS WHAT IT

FEEL LIKE TO BE ADOPTED I AMI

WAS ADOPT AT AGE 10 YEAR OLD

AND I DONT KNOW MY REAL

MOTHER AND FATHER AND

SISTER AND BROTHERS SO IF YOU

NEED SOMEONE TO TALK TO CALL

ME AT 717-569-1396 ALSO MY

HUSBAND AND I WILL LOVE AND

CARE FOR YOUR BABY AND WHEN

YOUR BABY GETS BIGGER WE WILL

TELL HIM OR HER THAT YOU LOVED

HIM OR HER AND YOU WANTED

WHAT WAS BEST FOR HIM OR HER &

THAT IS WHY WE GIVE HIM OR HER

UP FOR ADOPTION ALSO WE CAN

EMAIL US AT kalen2@peoplepc.com

SINCERLY YOUR ADOPTED FAMILY

AMI & JERRY CARMICHAEL & OUR

9 YEAR OLD DAUGHTER KALEN.

PS. WE LIVE IN LANCASTER,PA. &

WE WANT TO KNOW WHERE YOU

ARE FROM? 

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